QuoteReplyCalendar Event: My First son Posted: 28 July 2010 at 3:25am
I know alot of yall got kids.... jus found out my son due date has been moved from the 15th to the 9th... so jus wonderin if anybody willin to offer up any tips.
man congratulations mane!! Man I got 2 an aint really no tips I can give. Except, you learn as you go. People can tell u all they want how shits supposed to work but you aint gon know till you get thru it. An enjoy the crying an sleepless nights cause once they start being a "walkie-talkie" it dont get no easier lol. But mine make me want to wring their lil necks sometimes but I look at em when their sleep an it makes it all worth it. Dont know how you and the mother are but in the bible it says that a mother an father are supposed to love each other even more so than the kids (which u should also love with all your heart obviously) but that's what makes raising them less difficult. They need to see that strong bond between parents. Dont argue in front of them. Like if she says something you dont agree wit, jus agree with it then later talk to her alone about it. But like i said, its an experience thing so you learn as you go. An it doesnt get easier. But its a joy. But I guess the best advice I can give you is........
WHEN THE BABY COMES OUT TURN YOUR HEAD AND DONT LOOK AT THE AFTERBIRTH!!!!!!!!!!!!!
lol iight lol imma definitely try remember that last part. and me and her is good... right now we jus both anxious bout the baby...... seems like i been waitin forever... thanks for the advice man
Bro! Congratz ! You have been blessed. If you do anything in this life from now on ...do this...
Mold a man. Culture him and show him diversity. Teach him wisdom so that he is not imprisoned by street politics.Don't be a friend....be a Father....be a guide.Show your love for him everyday.Teach him to respect women and himself. God Bless you my brotha.
Do your best and be prepared to NOT be able to watch appeals for dis-advantaged third world kids on TV without gettin that lump in your throat - or reading about negative child cases in the newspaper without getting mad at the stories and perpetrators - or hearing tales of your child being picked on in school and wanting to go and knock the kid out and teach him a lesson despite him only probably being 4 or 5 years old lol - the list goes on and on and on ........
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lol iight lol imma definitely try remember that last part. and me and her is good... right now we jus both anxious bout the baby...... seems like i been waitin forever... thanks for the advice man
